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You’re three weeks into your foster care journey when the school calls. Your foster child is struggling in class, and the teacher mentions something about an “IEP meeting.” You nod along, but inside you’re wondering: What’s an IEP? Do I have the authority to make educational decisions? And where do I even start?

Here’s what matters right now: foster parents have specific educational rights and access to school support systems that can transform a child’s academic experience. Under the Every Student Succeeds Act (ESSA), foster children are entitled to immediate school enrollment, educational stability, and specialized support services that address the unique challenges they face. Whether you’re navigating special education services, dealing with enrollment roadblocks, or simply trying to help with homework after a rough day, understanding these rights isn’t just helpful—it’s essential.

This guide walks you through everything from federal protections to practical classroom strategies, so you can advocate effectively for your foster child’s education.

Why Foster Children Need Specialized School Support

Foster children face educational challenges that other students don’t encounter. The numbers tell a sobering story.

The Sec­ondary and Post­sec­ondary Edu­ca­tion Out­comes of Stu­dents with Expe­ri­ence in Fos­ter Care study, a comprehensive review of the literature led by Nathanael Okpych of the Uni­ver­si­ty of Con­necti­cut, found the following:

  • 69%–85% of foster youth graduate high school or complete a GED com­pared to 95% of young peo­ple overall
  • 8%–12% of foster youth earn a two- or four-year degree by their mid- to late 20s. That rate is nearly five times less than the 49% of young people in the general population who complete a degree.

But here’s the thing: those statistics don’t have to define your foster child’s experience.

School support for foster parents exists precisely because lawmakers and educators recognize these barriers. When you know what resources are available—and how to access them—you can help close that achievement gap.

Here are just some of the key challenges foster children face in school:

  • Trauma responses that look like behavioral issues but are actually coping mechanisms
  • Learning gaps from inconsistent schooling across multiple districts
  • Social difficulties stemming from attachment disruptions and peer relationship challenges
  • Executive function delays affecting organization, time management, and task completion

The good news? Every single one of these challenges has a corresponding support system in the education framework. Let’s dive into what those supports are and how you can access them.

Your Educational Rights as a Foster Parent

Let’s get clear on what you’re legally entitled to do as a foster parent to ensure your foster child has everything they need to succeed in school.

Decision-Making Authority

Your role in educational decisions depends on your specific situation. Most foster parents have what’s called “educational rights holder” status, meaning you can:

  • Sign permission slips and field trip forms
  • Attend parent-teacher conferences
  • Request special education evaluations
  • Consent to 504 plans or IEPs
  • Access school records and report cards

However, some educational decisions require approval from the child’s caseworker or biological parents if they still hold parental rights. When in doubt, check with your caseworker or foster care agency before major decisions like grade retention or special education placement.

Federal Protections Under ESSA

The Every Student Succeeds Act provides three critical protections for foster children:

  • Immediate enrollment: Schools must enroll your foster child immediately, even without typically required documents like immunization records, proof of residency, or transcripts. The school has to work with you to obtain these documents after enrollment.
  • School stability: When possible, children should remain in their “school of origin” (the school they attended before placement) to maintain continuity. If that’s in the child’s best interest, transportation must be provided.
  • Education point of contact: Every state must designate someone to ensure foster children’s educational needs are met. This liaison can help you navigate bureaucratic obstacles.

You can find more resources about specific provisions in ESSA here.

Special Education Rights

If your foster child has—or might have—a disability affecting their learning, you have the right to request an evaluation at any time. The school must respond within specific timeframes (usually 10 days to acknowledge, 60 days to complete).

This matters because research has found that students in foster care are nearly three and a half times more likely than their peers to receive special education services.

Understanding IEPs vs. 504 Plans

We know, the last thing you need as a busy foster parent is to have to decipher a bunch of bureaucratic acronyms. So, let’s break them down as simply as we can.

IEP (Individualized Education Program)

An IEP is a legal document for students with disabilities that significantly impact learning. It’s detailed, comprehensive, and can include:

  • Specific learning goals tailored to the child
  • Specialized instruction methods
  • Related services (speech therapy, counseling, occupational therapy)
  • Accommodations and modifications to curriculum
  • Annual reviews and progress monitoring

Example: A foster child with ADHD and trauma might have an IEP that includes smaller group instruction, movement breaks every 30 minutes, and weekly counseling sessions.

504 Plan (Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act)

A 504 plan is less intensive but still legally binding. It provides accommodations for students whose disabilities don’t require specialized instruction but do need support to access the same education as their peers. A key difference from an IEP is that 504 accommodations usually occur within the general education setting.

Common 504 accommodations include:

  • Extended time on tests
  • Preferential seating near the teacher
  • Permission to leave class for self-regulation
  • Modified homework assignments
  • A quiet space for testing

Example: A foster child with anxiety might have a 504 plan allowing them to leave class when overwhelmed and return after using coping strategies with the school counselor.

IEP vs. 504: Which Does Your Foster Child Need?

Factor IEP 504 Plan
Legal basis
Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA)
Section 504 of Rehabilitation Act
Eligibility
1 of 13 specific disabilities affecting learning
Any disability affecting major life activity
Services
Specialized instruction + accommodations
Accommodations only
Review frequency
Annual (minimum)
Varies by district
Best for
Students needing modified curriculum or teaching methods
Students who can access standard curriculum with supports

Most foster children benefit from starting with an IEP evaluation, since trauma and adverse childhood experiences often impact learning in ways that require more than accommodations alone.

How to Request and Navigate Special Education Services

You don’t need permission to start this process. Here’s how to begin.

Step 1: Submit a Written Request

Email your foster child’s school principal and copy the special education coordinator. (Be sure to also copy your foster child’s caseworker on any emails to the school so they can assist as well!) You can use this template and modify to fit your needs and specific situation:

“I am writing to formally request a special education evaluation for [child’s name], a student in [grade/teacher’s name]. I have concerns about [specific areas: reading comprehension, emotional regulation, attention, social skills]. Please begin the evaluation process as outlined under IDEA. I can be reached at [phone/email].”

The school must respond within 10 days in most states.

Step 2: Consent to Evaluation

The school will send consent forms and explain what they’ll assess. This typically includes:
 
  • Cognitive/intellectual testing
  • Academic achievement tests
  • Behavioral observations
  • Social-emotional assessments
  • Input from teachers and caregivers
You’ll fill out questionnaires too. Be honest and specific about what you observe at home.
 

Step 3: Attend the IEP Meeting

This is where the team (teachers, psychologist, special education coordinator, you, and sometimes the child) reviews results and decides if the child qualifies. Here’s what to do before, during, and after the meeting.
 
Before the meeting:
 
  • Review evaluation results carefully
  • Write down questions and concerns
  • Consider bringing your caseworker or an advocate
During the meeting:
 
  • Ask questions about anything you don’t understand
  • Request specific supports you think would help
  • Don’t sign anything you’re uncomfortable with—you can take the IEP home to review
After the meeting:
 
  • Keep copies of everything
  • Follow up on any services that don’t start promptly
  • Monitor progress through regular check-ins with teachers

Step 4: Monitor and Advocate

IEPs aren’t set-and-forget documents. You can request a meeting anytime if something isn’t working. Your foster child’s needs may change as they settle into your home, process trauma, or develop new skills.

Trauma-Informed Teaching Strategies to Request

Schools are increasingly adopting Trauma-Informed Practices (TIP) to create safe and supportive learning environments, but not all schools implement them well or without prompting. Educating yourself on these practices can help you become a better advocate for your foster child.
 

What Trauma-Informed Education Looks Like

It starts with understanding that behavioral issues are often trauma responses. A child who won’t make eye contact isn’t being defiant—they may have learned that eye contact preceded violence. A student who refuses to complete work might be experiencing executive function challenges from chronic stress exposure.
 
Whatever specific behavior your foster child may be exhibiting as a result of the trauma they’ve faced, effective trauma-informed practices can go a long way toward improving their school experience. Some of these strategies include:
 
Predictable routines and clear expectations. Foster children often come from chaotic environments. Knowing what comes next reduces anxiety and helps them focus on learning rather than survival.
 
Sensory regulation tools. Fidgets, wiggle cushions, standing desks, or simply permission to doodle during instruction can help dysregulated nervous systems calm down enough to learn.
 
Connection before correction. When behavior problems arise, trauma-informed teachers ask “What happened to you?” instead of “What’s wrong with you?” They build relationship first, then address the behavior.
 
Choices within boundaries. Giving controlled choices (“Do you want to work at your desk or the beanbag chair?”) helps children regain a sense of agency they’ve lost.
 
Safe spaces for regulation. A designated calm-down area with sensory tools, not used as punishment, gives kids a place to regroup before emotions escalate.
 

How to Advocate for These Approaches

You can’t force a teacher to be trauma-informed, but you can make specific requests, including:
 
  • Ask for a behavior intervention plan (BIP) that focuses on teaching coping skills, not just consequences
  • Request a “safe person” the child can go to when overwhelmed
  • Suggest proactive breaks rather than waiting for meltdowns
  • Share information about your foster child’s history (only what’s relevant and permitted)
Some teachers will embrace this immediately. Others need education. That’s where your caseworker, school counselor, or a trauma specialist can help bridge the gap.
 

Navigating School Enrollment and Records Transfer

This part often feels like the most frustrating bureaucratic maze, but federal law is on your side.
 

Immediate Enrollment Requirements

Schools cannot delay enrollment because of missing paperwork. Period.
 
If a registrar tells you they need immunization records, transcripts, or proof of residency before enrolling your foster child, politely reference the ESSA foster youth provisions and ask to speak with the principal or district foster care liaison.
 
What you should bring (even if incomplete):
 
  • Court placement documents
  • Any school records you have
  • Emergency contact information
  • Medical information if available
What schools must accept:
 
  • A sworn statement from you regarding residency
  • Your commitment to obtain missing records
  • Temporary health records while originals are tracked down

Expediting Records Transfer

Schools can take weeks to send records between districts. Speed this up by:
 
  1. Contacting the previous school directly yourself
  2. Requesting records in writing via email (creates a paper trail)
  3. Asking your caseworker to intervene if delays persist
  4. Utilizing your state’s foster care education liaison
 
Missing records mean teachers can’t identify learning gaps, special services get delayed, and your foster child may be placed in inappropriate classes. Be persistent.
 

Maintaining School Stability

Sometimes the best school isn’t the closest one. If your foster child was thriving at their previous school, federal law requires the district to consider keeping them there—and providing transportation.
 
When to fight for school of origin:
 
  • The child is in their final year at that school
  • They have strong peer relationships or supportive teachers there
  • A school change would disrupt necessary services (like ongoing therapy)
  • The academic calendar aligns better with their needs
When a school change might be better:
 
  • The commute creates significant stress or lost sleep
  • The previous school has negative associations or peer conflicts
  • Better special education services exist closer to the new placement
Work with your caseworker and the school district’s foster care liaison to make this determination within the required timeframe (usually within 30 days of placement).
 

Building a Strong School-Home Communication

Teachers juggling 25-30 students can’t read minds. You need to establish clear, consistent communication from day one. Schedule a meeting with your foster child’s teacher within the first week. Share what the child responds well to, potential triggers, and signs they’re dysregulated.
 
And remember: you’re not adversaries with the school. Most teachers genuinely care and want to help. But they’re also overworked and under-resourced. Approach conversations with curiosity: “I noticed [child] is struggling with [thing]. What are you seeing on your end? What’s worked before? Here’s what I’m trying at home—can we align our approaches?”
 
When you frame it as collaborative problem-solving rather than blame or demands, you’ll get much better results.
 

How to Support Learning at Home

School support for foster parents extends beyond the building. What happens in your home matters enormously. One thing you can do is create a homework-friendly environment. Designate a consistent study space with:
 
  • Good lighting and minimal distractions
  • Necessary supplies within reach
  • A visual schedule showing homework time
  • Options for sensory breaks
Some kids need silence. Others focus better with background music. Experiment to find what works for your foster child’s unique nervous system.
 

Manage Academic Expectations Realistically

Your foster child may be behind grade level. That’s okay and extremely common. Putting pressure on them to “catch up” overnight creates shame and resistance. Instead, celebrate small wins. Focus on effort and progress, not perfection. “You stuck with that math problem even when it was hard” matters more than the grade itself.
 
The road won’t always be easy. If homework battles are destroying your relationship or your foster child is falling further behind despite everyone’s efforts, it might be time for tutoring, educational therapy, or additional services through the IEP. Don’t view this as a failure. It’s strategic resource allocation.
 

When to Escalate Concerns

Most school issues resolve through communication and collaboration. But sometimes you need to escalate. Here are some red flags that signal it’s time to take action:
 
  • The school repeatedly denies services your foster child clearly needs
  • Evaluation timelines are ignored (most states require completion within 60 days)
  • IEP accommodations aren’t being implemented
  • Your foster child is suspended repeatedly without a behavior intervention plan
  • Enrollment is delayed beyond immediate enrollment requirements

Steps to Escalate

  • Level 1: Request a meeting with the principal and document your concerns in writing via email.
  • Level 2: File a complaint with your district’s special education director or foster care liaison.
  • Level 3: Contact your state’s department of education complaint resolution process.
  • Level 4: Consider mediation or, as a last resort, due process hearing (usually with legal representation).
Most situations don’t reach Levels 3 or 4. But knowing the process exists gives you confidence when advocating at earlier levels.
 

Common Challenges and Practical Solutions

When talking with foster parents about navigating their foster child’s education, there are always a few common challenges that come up. Let’s address those specific situations.
 

“My foster child refuses to go to school.”

School refusal often stems from anxiety, trauma, or social difficulties rather than defiance. Try identifying the specific fear they’re facing (academic overwhelm, peer conflict, separation anxiety). Then, collaborate with their school counselor on a gradual reentry plan, or request a functional behavior assessment (FBA). It also might be worth considering whether a different school placement could better meet your foster child’s needs.
 

“The teacher keeps calling about behavior issues.”

First, determine whether behaviors are trauma responses or something else. Work with a therapist and your child’s school to develop a behavior intervention plan that teaches coping skills rather than just imposing consequences.
 
You can also request a functional behavior assessment to identify triggers and patterns. Often, small environmental changes make huge differences.
 

“The school says they don’t have resources for what my foster child needs.”

Districts must provide a “free and appropriate public education” (FAPE) under IDEA, regardless of cost or resource constraints. If they claim they can’t provide necessary services, that’s usually a funding excuse, not a legal limitation.
 
Consult with a special education advocate or your state’s parent training center. You may need to formally request services in writing and pursue complaint resolution if denied.
 

“My foster child’s behaviors seem worse after starting school.”

This is incredibly common. School requires emotional regulation, social navigation, and executive function—all areas where traumatized children struggle. The effort of “holding it together” all day leads to emotional meltdowns at home.
 
This isn’t failure. It’s actually progress—your home is safe enough for them to release tension. Work with their therapist on regulation strategies and ensure the school implements appropriate breaks and supports.
 

Preparing for School Year Transitions

Every school year brings challenges for foster children, whether they’re new to your home or not. Here are some key tasks to remember during transition periods throughout the school year.
 

Start-of-Year Setup

Focus on these priorities during August and September:
 
  • Meet with teachers before school starts if possible
  • Provide a one-page summary of your foster child’s strengths, challenges, and successful strategies
  • Ensure IEP or 504 plan is updated and staff are trained on accommodations
  • Establish communication system with teachers
  • Review and practice school routines at home

Mid-Year Placement Changes

If a child enters your care during the school year:
 
  • Prioritize immediate enrollment over perfect school selection
  • Request expedited records transfer
  • Ask school counselor to facilitate peer introductions
  • Give the child extra grace for adjustment struggles
Don’t expect smooth sailing immediately. School transitions compound placement trauma. Expect regression before progress.
 

End-of-Year Planning

Spring is when you should:
 
  • Request IEP reviews if needed for next year
  • Advocate for specific teacher placements if certain educators are better trauma-informed
  • Arrange summer learning supports to prevent regression
  • Begin transition planning if the child is moving placements or aging out
By thinking ahead about what needs to get done before a school year transition occurs, you can help make that change as easy as possible for your foster child.
 

Take the Next Step

School support for foster parents isn’t just about navigating the intricacies of the school system—it’s about giving your foster child every possible opportunity to succeed despite the obstacles they’ve faced.
 
You’ve already done something remarkable by opening your home. Now, by understanding educational rights, advocating effectively, and accessing available resources, you can open doors to academic success too.
 
Every foster child’s situation is unique. The strategies here provide a framework, but your specific circumstances may require additional support or creative problem-solving.
 
That’s where Foster Plus comes in. Our partner agencies are deeply committed to the educational success of your foster child. It’s all part of the Circle of Support we surround you with to ensure you have everything you need to thrive as a foster parent and give your foster kid what they need—including in the classroom.
 
If you’re a current foster parent and have specific questions about school support, reach out to your partner agency contact.
 
And if you’re considering becoming a foster parent but questions about navigating a foster kids’ education are holding you back, give Foster Plus a call or shoot us a message. We’re happy to address your concerns and give you a clearer picture of what it takes to become a foster parent and help support a foster kid in their education journey. Because every child deserves an education that helps them thrive—and every foster parent deserves support in making that happen.
 

 

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I access my foster child’s school records?

Yes, if you’re the designated educational rights holder. Schools must provide records within 45 days of request in most states. You have the same access rights as biological parents for educational matters.
 

What if the school won’t enroll my foster child without immunization records?

Schools must enroll foster children immediately under ESSA. Reference federal law, contact your district’s foster care liaison, and document everything in writing. Immunization compliance can happen after enrollment.
 

How long does the IEP evaluation process take?

Districts typically have 60 days from consent to complete evaluations, though timelines vary by state. The initial meeting to review results and determine eligibility happens soon after. Push back if timelines drag unnecessarily.
 

Do I need the biological parents’ permission for special education services?

It depends on who holds educational rights. If parental rights are terminated or you’re designated educational rights holder, you can consent independently. Check with your caseworker on your specific authority level.
 

What happens to the IEP if my foster child changes schools?

The IEP remains in effect and the new school must implement it until they either adopt it, develop a new one, or determine the child no longer qualifies. Services cannot lapse during transitions.

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Can You Be a Foster Parent if You Rent? Housing Requirements Explained https://fosterplus.org/general/can-you-be-a-foster-parent-if-you-rent/ Fri, 24 Oct 2025 00:28:05 +0000 https://fosterplus.org/?p=894 Wondering if you can foster while renting? Learn about Oregon's housing requirements, safety standards, and how to work with your landlord.

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If you’re considering becoming a foster parent but you rent your home or apartment, you might be wondering if your housing situation will prevent you from opening your doors to a child in need. It’s a common concern—and an understandable one. After all, when you don’t own your home, there are landlords to consider, lease agreements to navigate, and questions about whether renting somehow makes you “less qualified” to foster.

Here’s the good news: Yes, you can absolutely be a foster parent if you rent! Your rental status does not disqualify you from fostering in Oregon. Whether you live in an apartment, a duplex, or a single-family rental, what matters most is that you can provide a safe, stable, and loving environment for a child who needs one.

In this guide, we’ll walk you through everything you need to know about fostering as a renter in Oregon—from housing requirements and home inspections to working with your landlord and preparing your space. If you’ve been holding back from taking that first step because you’re unsure about your rental situation, this is for you.

The Short Answer: Renting Doesn’t Disqualify You

There is no rule in Oregon that says foster parents must own their homes. Foster care agencies, including Foster Plus partner agencies, welcome renters who meet the necessary safety and space requirements.

What agencies care about isn’t whether you rent or own—it’s whether your home is a safe, appropriate environment for a child. That means having the right space, meeting safety standards, and being able to commit to providing stability and care. Homeownership is simply not a prerequisite.

That said, there are a few considerations unique to renters that you’ll want to be aware of as you move through the foster parent certification process. Let’s break those down.

Housing Requirements for Foster Parents Who Rent

Space Requirements: Does Your Rental Need to Be a Certain Size?

One of the most important housing requirements—whether you rent or own—is that the child in your care must have their own designated bedroom space. This means a separate room that functions as a legal bedroom, not a shared space, converted closet, or makeshift area.

The good news? The type of rental you live in doesn’t matter. You can foster in:

  • An apartment
  • A duplex
  • A townhome
  • A single-family rental
  • Any other rental arrangement

As long as you have a bedroom that can be dedicated solely to the foster child, you’re meeting this key requirement.

What Are Oregon’s Bedroom Requirements?

In the state of Oregon, a bedroom needs to meet certain criteria, such as:

  • At least one unrestricted exit
  • At least one secondary means of exit or rescue
  • Functioning smoke alarms
  • Unrestricted, direct access at all times to hallways, corridors, living rooms, or other common areas
  • Quick-release mechanisms on all barred windows

These are standard requirements that apply to all foster homes, not just rentals. When your home is inspected, the certifying agency will verify that the bedroom meets these standards.

We have an entire blog post on Oregon foster care bedroom requirements, which you can read here.

Safety Standards: What Your Rental Must Have

Home safety is non-negotiable when it comes to fostering, and the standards are the same whether you rent or own. During the certification process, your home will be inspected to ensure it meets Oregon’s safety requirements. Here are just some of the things agencies will be looking for:

Emergency Preparedness

Functioning and properly located safety equipment is a must, as are accessible emergency exits. This includes:

  • Smoke detectors: At least one on each floor and in each bedroom where a child sleeps.
  • Carbon monoxide alarms: Also one on each floor and within 15 feet of a child’s bedroom.
  • Dual means of exit: Your home must have at least two ways to exit in case of an emergency (and they must be able to be opened by your foster child).

Secure Storage Requirements

Potentially dangerous items must be properly secured. This includes:

  • Weapons: Guns should be kept in locked storage with ammunition stored separately. Other hunting or sporting equipment (like bows) should also be securely stored and inaccessible to your foster child.
  • Medications: All medications should be locked and refrigerated when required.
  • Substances: Alcohol and marijuana products should be kept inaccessible to the child.
  • Sharps: Items like knives, razors, and needles must be safely stored.

These standards exist to protect the children in your care, and they’re designed to be achievable in any type of home.

Cleanliness and Livability

Your home must be clean and provide a safe, healthy environment. But here’s something important to understand: agencies aren’t expecting perfection.

The home inspection is conducted through the lens of child safety, not interior design. If your rental needs some basic repairs or has cosmetic issues—maybe the paint is a little worn, or the carpet has seen better days—those things are unlikely to be barriers to certification. The agency will discuss any concerns with you, but minor cosmetic issues typically won’t prevent you from moving forward.

However, if there are serious structural concerns, significant hygiene issues, or the home cannot meet the required safety standards, those may need to be addressed before you can be certified. In most cases, agencies will work with you to identify solutions and help you get your home ready.

For more information on the home inspection process, read this blog post about what to expect and how to prepare.

Working with Your Landlord: What You Need to Know

Here’s where things can feel a little more complicated for renters: you’ll need to make sure fostering is allowed under your lease agreement.

Do You Need Landlord Permission?

The short answer is: it depends on your lease. Foster parents who rent are responsible for understanding the terms of their rental agreement and working within the parameters set by their landlord or property management company.
Some leases have occupancy limits or restrictions on who can live in the unit. Others may require written permission before adding additional household members. It’s important to review your lease carefully and, if necessary, have a conversation with your landlord before you begin the foster parent certification process.

How to Approach the Conversation with Your Landlord

Talking to your landlord about fostering can feel intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be. Here are a few tips:

Be upfront and honest. Share your plans to become a foster parent early in the process. Explain what fostering involves and how it will work within your rental situation. Transparency helps build trust and can prevent misunderstandings down the road.

Know your lease. Before you approach your landlord, review your rental agreement so you understand what’s allowed and what might require permission. This shows that you’re taking the matter seriously and are committed to following the rules.

Provide context. Some landlords may not be familiar with foster care. Let them know that foster children are not a risk to the property and that you’ll be held to the same standards of care and responsibility as any other tenant. You might also mention that you’re working with a certified agency and that your home will be inspected for safety.

Be prepared for questions. Your landlord may want to know how many children you plan to foster, how long placements typically last, or whether there are any liability concerns. Answer their questions honestly and offer to provide additional information if needed.

Get it in writing. If your landlord agrees to let you foster, ask for written permission or an amendment to your lease. This protects both you and your landlord and provides documentation if any questions arise later.

What If Your Landlord Says No?

Unfortunately, some landlords may not be supportive of fostering. If your landlord refuses to give permission and your lease prohibits additional occupants, you may need to explore other options—such as finding a new rental that allows fostering or waiting until your lease is up for renewal.

If welcoming a foster kid into your home full-time isn’t an option with your current housing situation, you can explore becoming a relief parent, which involves providing care for foster kids on a temporary basis—just a day or two at a time. You may want to double check your lease to ensure that level of care is allowed. And if not, there are also plenty of opportunities to volunteer with one of our partner agencies in your area.

Renters Insurance: An Additional Requirement

One thing that’s specific to renters is the requirement for renters insurance. As a foster parent who rents, you’ll need to have an active renters insurance policy in place.

Renters insurance is relatively affordable and provides important protections for your belongings and liability coverage in case of accidents or damages. Make sure your policy is up to date and that you can provide proof of coverage when requested during the certification process.

Taking the First Step

If you’re still on the fence about whether fostering is possible in your rental situation, here’s the best advice we can give you: take the first step.

You won’t know whether your rental will work until you start asking questions and gathering information. Reach out to Foster Plus or one of our partner agencies to have a conversation about your specific situation. They can answer your questions, walk you through the requirements, and help you determine what’s possible.

Fostering is about so much more than the type of home you live in. It’s about your willingness to open your heart and your life to a child who needs stability, safety, and love. If you have that to offer—and you meet the basic safety and space requirements—then you have what it takes.

Ready to learn more? Contact Foster Plus today to start a conversation about becoming a foster parent. Whether you rent or own, there’s a child out there who needs exactly what you have to offer.

You can also attend one of our upcoming information sessions to ask questions and get a better sense of what the foster care journey looks like.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can you be a foster parent if you rent an apartment?

Yes! You can foster in an apartment as long as it meets the required safety standards and you have a separate, legal bedroom for the child. The type of rental doesn’t matter—apartments, duplexes, townhomes, and single-family rentals are all acceptable.

Do I need my landlord’s permission to become a foster parent?

It depends on your lease agreement. You’ll need to review your rental contract to see if there are any occupancy restrictions or requirements for adding household members. If permission is required, it’s best to have an upfront conversation with your landlord and get approval in writing.

What if my landlord won’t let me foster?

If your landlord refuses and your lease doesn’t allow for additional occupants, you may need to find a different rental that permits fostering. While this can be disappointing, it doesn’t mean you can’t become a foster parent—it just means you may need to adjust your housing situation first.

Do I need renters insurance to foster?

Yes. Foster parents who rent are required to have an active renters insurance policy. This is typically an affordable monthly expense and provides important liability coverage.

What safety features does my rental need to have?

Your rental must have working smoke detectors and carbon monoxide alarms, dual means of exit in case of emergency, and secure storage for firearms, medications, chemicals, and sharps. Depending on the age of the child, additional childproofing may be required.

What happens during the home inspection?

A representative from the certifying agency will visit your home to ensure it meets all safety and space requirements. They’ll check for working smoke and carbon monoxide detectors, safe sleeping areas, secure storage of hazardous items, and general cleanliness. The inspection is conducted through the lens of child safety, not perfection.

Will cosmetic issues in my rental disqualify me?

Minor cosmetic issues—like worn paint or older carpet—are unlikely to prevent you from being certified. Agencies understand that rentals vary in condition. However, serious structural or hygiene concerns may need to be addressed before certification.

What if I need to move while I’m fostering?

If you move to a new rental, you’ll need to notify your certifying agency and have your new home inspected to ensure it meets safety standards. As long as the new rental is appropriate, your certification can continue.

Can I foster if I have roommates?

It’s possible to foster with roommates, but all adults living in the home will need to complete background checks and be part of the certification process. This is to ensure the safety of the child.

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Fostering Through Trauma: How We Equip & Support Parents https://fosterplus.org/general/fostering-through-trauma-how-we-equip-parents/ Wed, 20 Aug 2025 22:03:05 +0000 https://fosterplus.org/?p=887 Learn how we equip Oregon foster parents with trauma-informed training and ongoing support to help children heal.

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If you’re considering becoming a foster parent, one of the biggest questions you might have is: What happens if the child placed with me has experienced trauma? It’s an important question—and you’re not alone in asking it.

The truth is, many children in Oregon’s foster care system have lived through difficult, sometimes deeply painful experiences. But here’s what’s also true: with the right support, understanding, and training, you can play a powerful role in helping them feel safe, valued, and supported.

At Foster Plus, we equip foster parents with the tools, guidance, and encouragement they need to care for children who’ve experienced trauma. You don’t have to be a trauma expert—you just have to be open, willing to learn, and ready to walk alongside a child on their path to healing.

Below, we’ll share a bit about the prevalence of trauma and how it shows up in a child’s behavior before giving you a detailed look at the trainings and other resources we offer to help prepare foster parents.

Trauma Is Common — But Healing Is Possible

Children enter foster care for many reasons, and often it’s because their home environments were unsafe, unstable, or both. Statistics from the 2023 Child Welfare Data Book prepared by the Oregon Department of Human Services shows just how widespread childhood trauma is in the foster system:

  • 40.7% of children have lived with a caregiver experiencing substance use issues
  • 30.3% have been exposed to domestic violence
  • 27.8% have experienced neglect
  • 14.1% have a caregiver involved with law enforcement
  • 12.8% have lived with a caregiver with a serious mental illness
  • 10.5% have been victims of physical abuse
  • 10.5% have been victims of sexual abuse

These numbers are sobering—but they also tell us something important: kids in foster care are incredibly resilient. And with the support of a caring, trauma-informed foster parent, they can begin to feel safe, rebuild trust, and form healthy relationships again.

How Trauma Might Show Up

In the early days of a new placement, trauma can show up in a child’s behavior—sometimes in ways that are confusing or challenging for a new foster parent. You might notice:

  • Withdrawal, emotional shutdown, or appearing “numb”
  • Difficulty with sleep, appetite, or transitions
  • Aggression, defiance, or emotional outbursts
  • Clinginess or fear of separation
  • Trouble following rules or routines
  • A lack of trust or resistance to affection

These behaviors aren’t personal—and they aren’t signs that you’re doing anything wrong. They’re the result of a child doing their best to protect themselves in a new environment.

Trauma-Informed Care Starts With Support

One of the most common misconceptions new foster parents have is that love and structure will “fix” things right away. While those things are absolutely essential, healing from trauma takes time—and it takes tools. That’s why Foster Plus and our partner agencies offer comprehensive, hands-on training and support to help you feel confident and equipped.

Here’s how we help:

Required & Optional Trauma-Related Training

Every new foster parent receives training focused on understanding trauma and responding in ways that build trust and connection. Here are some examples of trainings you might receive:

Required Trauma-Related Training

These courses are part of the foundational education every foster parent receives:

Collaborative Problem Solving (CPS): 6-Week Parent Class
This core training teaches parents how to work with children to solve problems, build skills, and reduce conflict. It’s focused on empathy, connection, and helping children learn to manage their behavior in safe, supported ways. Required in your first year of certification.

Foster Parent Institute: 4-Week Program
A comprehensive introduction to key topics like trauma, child development, communication, and behavior management. Required for initial certification.

Crisis Prevention Intervention (CPI): 6 Hours
This training focuses on verbal and environmental de-escalation techniques. You’ll learn how to recognize signs of distress and safely support a child through a moment of crisis—without physical interventions, which are not permitted by our partner agency GOBHI. Required and renewed every two years.

Parenting Skills Practice: 1.5 Hours
A shorter workshop offering real-world strategies for parenting children who’ve experienced trauma, including practice scenarios and skill reinforcement.

Optional Training & Ongoing Support

Foster parenting isn’t one-size-fits-all. That’s why we offer a variety of live and on-demand learning opportunities to meet the evolving needs of your family and your foster child.

  • Monthly Power Hour — A live virtual training on a rotating topic each month, from navigating school challenges to self-care for foster parents.
  • Monthly CPS Drop-In Hour — An open session where you can ask questions and get coaching directly from staff familiar with the CPS model.
  • Affirming LGBTQ+ Youth Training (1.5 hours) — Tools and strategies for creating inclusive, affirming environments for LGBTQ+ youth in care.
  • (Upcoming) Affirming Racial Identities Training (1.5 hours) – Helping foster parents support and affirm the racial and cultural identities of children in their care.
  • Relias Training Library – A wide range of online learning modules you can complete on your schedule.

Whether you’re in your first year or your fifth, there’s always room to grow—and we’re here to help you every step of the way.

You’re Never Alone in This

Training is just one piece of the puzzle. Just as important is knowing that you have a real team behind you. Our partner agencies don’t just certify you and send you on your way. You’ll receive ongoing coaching, check-ins, and personal support—especially when challenges arise.

Foster parents are coached to look beyond behaviors and ask: What is this child trying to tell me? What do they need to feel safe? You’ll learn how to regulate your own emotions in the moment, respond without escalating, and prioritize connection over control—all skills that help children learn to trust again.

What Healing Can Look Like

When trauma-informed strategies are applied consistently, incredible things can happen. Foster parents have shared moments like:

  • A child who once avoided adults starting to make eye contact or ask for help
  • A teen who had trouble regulating emotions learning to use words instead of actions
  • Fewer power struggles, more cooperation, and a growing sense of connection
  • A bedtime routine that becomes a moment of safety and calm
  • The first time a child says, “I feel safe here”

These small wins are big steps. And they’re all possible—with patience, consistency, and support.

You Don’t Have to Be Perfect. Just Present.

If you’re nervous about your ability to parent a child with trauma, know this: you don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to care, be open to learning, and be willing to show up—again and again.

At Foster Plus, we’ll make sure you’re not doing this alone. From initial training to ongoing coaching, we’re with you every step of the way. Because when foster parents feel supported, kids feel safer. And that’s when healing begins.

Ready to Learn More?

If you have questions about trauma-informed foster parenting—or you’re ready to begin the certification journey—we’d love to talk with you. Reach out to connect with a Foster Plus partner agency near you.

Together, we can help children heal — one safe, supported home at a time.

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How Much Do Foster Parents Get Paid in Oregon? https://fosterplus.org/general/how-much-do-foster-parents-get-paid-in-oregon/ Fri, 28 Mar 2025 01:00:04 +0000 https://fosterplus.org/?p=607 It's understandable to wonder how much foster parents get paid. Learn how extra financial support from Foster Plus makes fostering possible.

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When talking with prospective foster parents, one common question that comes up is, “How much do foster parents get paid in Oregon?” Most of the time, this isn’t a selfish question coming from someone who’s wondering if fostering is a get rich quick scheme. (Spoiler alert: it’s not.)

Usually, it’s a genuine question from good people who really want to become foster parents, but they’re not sure if it’s financially possible for them.

If this describes you, you’re not alone. Being a foster parent is an immensely rewarding experience, but it also comes with some challenges. And one big challenge for many foster parents is finances. That’s why Foster Plus offers extra financial support: to empower foster parents to provide the best possible care for their foster kids, without needing to constantly worry about how to make ends meet.

Foster Plus is an effort of nonprofit social service agencies in Oregon dedicated to offering extra support beyond traditional foster care services. This includes extra financial support to enable foster parents to care for foster kids with higher needs. In this blog, we’ll explore the role that this financial support plays in foster care and how the extra assistance from Foster Plus agencies can make a significant difference in the lives of foster families.

 

The Role of Financial Support in Foster Care

Generally, financial assistance in foster care is designed to cover the essentials. Think food, clothing, housing, and other basic necessities. But the reality is fostering involves many additional expenses that go beyond these basics. This can include anything from providing transportation to appointments and activities to paying for extracurricular activities, educational supplies, and therapeutic services, which can add up quickly.

For many foster parents, balancing these expenses while providing a safe and loving environment can be challenging. That’s where the extra financial support from Foster Plus agencies comes in. It’s a way to ensure foster families have what they need—whether that’s specialized training, extra resources, or time to focus on their foster kid’s well-being—without added financial stress.

Fostering takes patience, commitment, and deep emotional investment. Financial support helps foster parents stay focused on what matters most: creating a stable, healing home where foster kids can thrive.

 

How Our Level of Support Differs From Traditional Foster Care

Foster Plus agencies collaborate closely with Oregon’s Department of Human Services to deliver what’s called “treatment foster care” programs, while the State of Oregon primarily oversees the larger population of foster kids in traditional foster care. All foster kids receive medical and dental care through the Oregon Health Plan, but Foster Plus agencies provide higher financial support because treatment foster care demands a greater level of commitment, specialized training, and family resources.

Here’s why we offer additional support to foster parents:

  • Children in treatment foster care often have complex emotional, behavioral, or medical needs that require more intensive supervision, therapeutic interventions, and structured support from foster parents.
  • Foster parents in these programs undergo additional training and are expected to use one of Foster Plus agencies’ evidence-based, trauma-informed, therapeutic approaches that go beyond what’s typically required in general foster care.
  • Foster Plus’ extra financial support for foster parents — in addition to relief care availability and 24/7 support services — helps reduce burnout and turnover, ensuring that foster parents can continue providing care without financial strain, leading to more stable foster home placements.
  • Treatment foster parents work closely with agencies, often attending more meetings, coordinating with therapists, and following specialized care plans, which adds to their responsibilities.

 

Caring for a child or teen in treatment foster care takes patience, commitment, and deep emotional investment. Foster Plus’ extra financial support for these foster families reflects the higher level of care and commitment required, helping foster parents focus on providing a nurturing environment where foster kids with higher needs can heal and grow.

 

How Extra Financial Support Helps Foster Parents

Fostering a child or teen in need is not only a financial investment, but also an emotional one. Extra financial support is meant to help foster parents thrive in this important role.

Here are just a few of the ways that extra financial support can make fostering “easier” on foster parents:

Access to specialized training & education

Foster parenting requires continuous learning and development to effectively meet the diverse needs of foster kids. Extra financial support can be allocated to training programs, workshops, and seminars that give foster parents the skills and knowledge they need to navigate the complexities of fostering. Extra support can cover costs for advanced trauma-informed care training, de-escalation techniques, or certifications that help foster parents better support foster kids with higher needs.

Cover foster kids’ medical bills & therapy expenses

Many foster kids require medical and therapeutic services to address physical, emotional, and psychological needs. Extra financial support can help cover the costs of healthcare, including doctor visits, medications, and specialized treatments. It also enables foster parents to provide necessary therapeutic services, such as counseling and mental health support, which are vital for supporting foster kids who have experienced trauma.

Pay for home improvements & supplies

Extra financial support helps foster parents make necessary home improvements, purchase furniture, and create a space where foster kids can feel secure and loved. It can also be used to help pay for safety modifications, sensory-friendly items, or other specialized equipment needed to make a home more supportive for foster kids with higher needs.

Lower out-of-pocket grocery store expenses

Many kids in treatment foster care have specific dietary needs or exhibit trauma-related behaviors (i.e., food insecurity issues) that cause them to consume food at a higher rate. By easing the financial strain on foster parents, extra financial support helps foster parents focus on meeting their foster kids’ food-related needs — instead of worrying about higher grocery bills.

Buy clothing & personal items for foster kids

Many foster kids arrive at their foster homes with very few belongings, and they often need extra clothing, shoes, or sensory-friendly items to help them feel comfortable. With extra financial support, foster parents are able to provide their foster kids with these essential items, which can go a long way toward helping foster kids feel more at home.

Pay for transportation-related expenses

Transportation costs can add up quickly for foster parents, especially for those who need to drive their foster kids to frequent therapy, medical, or specialist visits. When it comes to transportation expenses, extra financial support can help cover gas, vehicle maintenance, and even public transit costs.

Enable work and schedule flexibility

Additional financial support can give foster parents the flexibility they need to adjust work hours, take time off, or reduce outside employment to better meet their foster kid’s needs and schedule.

Purchase school supplies & technology

Foster kids may need additional educational support, such as tutoring or specialized learning materials. With extra financial assistance, foster parents can invest in these resources to help their children succeed academically. Extra financial support can also help foster parents purchase laptops, tablets, or other assistive technology for foster kids with learning differences.

Pay for extracurricular activities

Participation in sports, arts, and other extracurricular activities are massively beneficial to any child’s development. Extra financial support lets foster parents enroll their foster kids in these important activities, which help foster kids grow their talents and interests while building their social skills and confidence.

Take advantage of self-care resources

Extra financial support can help foster parents take advantage of important resources for stress relief, such as attending a foster parent support group, counseling, or other activities that help them maintain their emotional well-being.

Financial relief during emergencies and unforeseen circumstances

Foster families sometimes experience unexpected costs related to placement disruptions, emergency supplies, or urgent home adjustments. Extra financial support can be an invaluable resource during these difficult times.

 

How Extra Financial Support Enriches Foster Kids’ Lives

Extra financial support from Foster Plus partner agencies doesn’t just benefit foster parents—it also helps foster kids thrive as well. Here are some examples of how this support can enrich the lives of foster kids:

Creates educational opportunities for foster kids

Extra financial support allows foster kids to access quality education, participate in enrichment programs, and receive the academic support they need to succeed. Older foster youth can benefit from funds for SAT prep, college application fees, vocational training, or job readiness programs.

Lets foster kids participate in extracurricular activities

Whether it’s joining a sports team, taking music lessons, or participating in art classes, extracurricular activities help foster kids develop new skills, build confidence, regulate their emotions, and form lasting friendships. Many foster kids miss out on camp experiences. With extra financial support, foster parents can send their foster kids to summer camps and other after-school programs that help kids make friends and become more independent.

Gives foster kids access to therapy & counseling beyond Medicaid coverage

Many foster kids require counseling and therapeutic services to address past traumas and emotional challenges. Some foster kids may benefit from specialized therapy—like EMDR or art therapy—that isn’t fully covered by state funds. Extra financial support lets foster kids get the treatment they need to heal and grow. For foster kids who may benefit from having an emotional support animal, extra funds can also help pay for that pet’s care.

Gives foster kids comfortable home environments

Extra financial support helps foster parents create a loving and secure space where foster kids can feel safe. This includes purchasing calming and sensory-friendly items to help foster kids deal with feelings of anxiety and overstimulation, such as weighted blankets, fidget tools, and noise-canceling headphones. Extra funds can also help foster parents decorate a child’s room with comforting items like new bedding, nightlights, or personalized decor that make them feel at home.

Lets foster kids experience celebrations & family fun

Extra financial support helps make sure that foster kids experience meaningful birthdays, holidays, and cultural celebrations complete with gifts, outings, and special meals. Foster parents can also use extra funds to pay for fun, family-bonding experiences like day trips to a theme park or nature outings. These experiences can help foster kids feel closer to their foster families and more at home.

Lets foster kids visit their siblings & family

Sometimes foster kids are separated from their siblings or other biological family members. Extra financial support can help cover travel costs so foster kids can stay connected with these loved ones.

 

Make a Difference with the Right Support

Financial support is about more than just meeting basic needs; it’s about giving foster parents the solid foundation they need to open their homes and provide life-changing care for their foster kids. By alleviating financial stress, Foster Plus is committed to helping foster parents focus on what truly matters—nurturing, supporting, and loving the foster kids in their care.

If you’re considering becoming a foster parent, we encourage you to attend an information session to learn more about the fostering process and connect with your local Foster Plus agency. If you’re not sure fostering is right for you, we still encourage you to attend a session. There’s no pressure to sign up to become a foster parent—just come to learn more and ask questions!

For those who may not be ready for a full-time commitment, relief care—also known as respite care—is a fantastic way to get involved. Relief caregivers provide temporary care for foster kids, offering a much-needed break for full-time foster parents. It’s a rewarding way to support foster parents and make a positive impact in a foster kid’s life.

If you have any questions about financial support for foster parents, please don’t hesitate to reach out. You can send us a message at info@fosterplus.org and a member of our team will be happy to assist you.

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A Quick Guide to Oregon Foster Care Bedroom Requirements https://fosterplus.org/general/a-quick-guide-to-oregon-foster-care-bedroom-requirements/ Tue, 17 Dec 2024 23:16:21 +0000 https://fosterplus.org/?p=602 Learn about Oregon foster care bedroom requirements and how you can prepare your home to be a welcoming place for a foster kid.

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Did you know that Oregon has legal requirements for foster kids’ bedrooms? It’s true! If you’re thinking about becoming a foster parent, it’s essential to understand and adhere to these important regulations. While these state requirements might seem like additional hurdles on your foster parent journey, the reality is that they play a crucial role in ensuring that all Oregon-based foster kids have a safe home environment where they can feel comfortable and secure.

Understanding Oregon’s foster care bedroom requirements can help potential foster parents prepare their homes to welcome a foster kid — allowing a smoother transition for the child and the family when the time comes. In this blog, we’ll review Oregon’s foster care bedroom requirements, why they’re important, and offer guidance on preparing for the home inspection process.

 

Why Oregon Has Specific Bedroom Requirements

Oregon’s statewide requirements for foster kids’ bedrooms are designed to promote the safety, privacy, and comfort of children and teens living in foster care. One of the foundational principles behind these regulations is the value of consistency and structure in the lives of foster children. Many foster kids come from unstable, traumatic backgrounds, and experiencing security and stability while in foster care is essential to them being able to heal and thrive.

However, no matter a child’s background, providing a consistent and structured living space is key to helping them feel more secure in their new surroundings. Giving your foster kid a safe, comfortable bedroom is often the starting point for them gaining a sense of security and a feeling of being “at home.”

 

Overview of Oregon Foster Care Bedroom Requirements

Here are the main Oregon foster care bedroom requirements to be aware of when getting ready to welcome a foster kid into your home:

  • At least one unrestricted exit: This guarantees your foster kid can leave the room quickly and safely when needed.
  • At least one secondary means of exit or rescue: This could be a window that meets specific size criteria or another door leading to a safe exit.
  • Functioning smoke alarms: These are essential for early detection of fires, providing an additional layer of safety to your foster kid’s bedroom.
  • Unrestricted, direct access at all times to hallways, corridors, living rooms, or other common areas: This lets your foster kid move freely and safely within the home.
  • Quick-release mechanisms on all barred windows: If windows are barred for security reasons, they must have quick-release mechanisms so it’s possible to exit through those windows in case of emergency.

 

During the home study process, Foster Plus partner agencies will run through a comprehensive checklist to make sure the bedroom your foster kid will be using meets state requirements. In addition to these state requirements, your local agency may also check for additional conditions, including:

  • Accessibility of room windows: Windows should be accessible and operable to allow for proper ventilation and an additional escape route.
  • Room size: The bedroom should be of adequate size to comfortably accommodate your foster kid and their belongings.
    Number of children per room: Regulations may specify the maximum number of children that can share a bedroom in order to give your foster kid adequate space and privacy.
  • Bedding, furniture, and linens: Your foster kid should have their own bed with appropriate bedding, a dresser or closet for their clothes, and other necessary furniture.
  • Window shades, curtains, or other coverings to assure privacy: Proper window coverings give privacy to your foster kid’s bedroom, which can promote a sense of security.

 

If you have specific questions about the bedrooms in your home and whether they’re suitable for foster care, send us a message, and we’ll be glad to talk with you.

 

How to Prepare for a Home Inspection

In the previous section, we mentioned the home study process. You may be wondering, what is that? Often called a “home study,” a thorough home inspection is a required step in the foster parent certification process. However, a home study is more than just a home inspection.

The typical home study features two components: a safety walkthrough of your home and a personal interview. Home studies are conducted to verify that potential foster parents are well-suited to provide safe and supportive environments to kids placed in their care. They’re also helpful for ensuring the best possible match between future foster parents and their future foster kids.

Understandably, many potential foster parents find the home study to be daunting, if not a little invasive. But, being proactive about preparing your home (and the bedrooms in it) can alleviate some of the anxiety associated with the certification process and ensure that your home is ready to welcome a foster kid.

In this blog, we do a deep dive into the home study process, breaking down everything from interviews and paperwork to the actual home visit. If you want to learn more about what to expect from a home study and how to prepare, we encourage you to read it.

 

We’re Always Here to Answer Your Questions

Oregon’s regulations on foster kids’ bedrooms help make sure that every foster kid has a secure, comfortable, and private space, which is foundational to their well-being and stability. We hope this blog has helped you learn more about Oregon’s requirements for foster kids’ bedrooms and the rationale behind these regulations: providing safe and nurturing environments for foster kids.

If you have any questions about this topic, the bedrooms in your home, or anything else related to becoming a foster parent, don’t hesitate to reach out to us. We’re here to support you as you navigate the foster parent journey and home study process.

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Parenting a Child With Trauma: Resources for Foster Parents https://fosterplus.org/general/parenting-a-child-with-trauma-resources-for-foster-parents/ Mon, 30 Sep 2024 22:08:43 +0000 https://fosterplus.org/?p=597 Parenting a child with trauma isn't easy. These strategies and resources can empower you to provide the support your foster kid needs.

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Many foster children have experienced significant trauma in their lives. In fact, it’s estimated that up to 90% of children in foster care have experienced a traumatic event. Unfortunately, these experiences can have lasting negative effects on a foster kid’s mental and emotional health, as well as their behavior and development. At Foster Plus, the majority of kids we work with have experienced trauma and disruption and need extra care to heal and grow from these experiences. For foster parents, providing this support and parenting a child with trauma can be incredibly challenging — but it can also be deeply rewarding.

Understanding the impact of trauma can unlock your ability to better support all of the strengths your foster kid possesses. In this blog, we’ll share resources and strategies to help you understand the trauma kids experiencing foster care might be facing and how you can show up well to support them and give them the love and care they need to thrive. We’ll discuss common forms of trauma, how trauma impacts child development, strategies for creating a healing environment and building trust, as well as helpful resources for further reading.

Understanding Trauma in Foster Children

Foster parents provide critical care and support to kids in need. But to fully understand the needs of your foster kid, you need to recognize and understand their experiences with trauma and how those experiences are impacting them. The first step toward gaining this understanding is familiarizing yourself with common sources of trauma and risk factors.

Physical abuse, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, and neglect are the most common sources of trauma among foster children. Foster kids who have been exposed to substance use, severe economic stress, and/or homelessness are more likely to have experienced maltreatment falling into one or more of these categories. Those who identify as LGBTQIA2S+ or have intellectual and developmental disabilities are also more likely to have encountered abuse and neglect.

In the next section, we’ll explore how these traumatic experiences can impact a foster kid’s behavior and development, both short-term and long-term.

The Impact of Trauma on Child Development

Trauma can affect anyone, but children are especially vulnerable because their brains and bodies are still developing, and they depend on adults for protection and support. When a child experiences trauma, their brain activates the stress response system, which prepares them to fight, flee, or freeze. This is a normal and adaptive reaction that helps them survive a dangerous situation. However, when the stress response system is activated too often or for too long, it can disrupt the brain’s normal development and affect the child’s behavior and functioning. Some of the effects of trauma on a child’s development include:

  • Poor physical health: Trauma can impair the immune system, increase inflammation, and alter the hormonal balance. This can make the child more susceptible to illnesses, infections, and chronic diseases. Trauma can also affect the child’s appetite, sleep, and energy levels.
  • Inappropriate emotional responses: Trauma can make the child more sensitive to emotional cues, such as facial expressions, tone of voice, and body language. This can make them more reactive, impulsive, or aggressive. Trauma can also make the child more prone to anxiety, depression, anger, guilt, shame, or low self-esteem.
  • Impaired cognition: Trauma can affect the child’s memory, attention, concentration, and learning abilities. Trauma can also impair the child’s executive functions, such as planning, organizing, problem-solving, and decision-making. Trauma can also affect the child’s language and communication skills.
  • Negative self-concept: Trauma can negatively affect a child’s sense of identity, belonging, and worth by making a child feel insecure, distrustful, or isolated. Trauma can also stunt a child’s self-regulation, meaning their ability to control their emotions, impulses, and behaviors.

 

One of the most challenging aspects of parenting a foster kid who has experienced trauma is understanding their developmental age, which refers to the level of skills and abilities that a child has acquired physically, cognitively, socially, and emotionally. If your foster kid has experienced trauma, it is likely that trauma has created a gap between their biological and developmental age, meaning that they may act younger or older than their actual age.

For example, a 10-year-old foster kid who has experienced trauma may act like a 6-year-old in some situations, such as throwing tantrums or having difficulty with schoolwork. When this gap goes unaddressed, it can be frustrating for both the foster parent and the foster kid, leading to unrealistic expectations on behalf of the foster parent and feeling misunderstood on behalf of the foster kid.

Foster parents should also be aware of the potential long-term consequences of trauma. Research such as the CDC-Kaiser ACE Study shows that childhood trauma can increase the risk of experiencing various physical and mental health problems as an adult, including heart disease, cancer, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder. Research also shows that childhood trauma is linked to poor educational and occupational outcomes, such as dropping out of school, unemployment, and criminal involvement.

But it’s important to remember that these long-term consequences are not inevitable. As a foster parent, you have the power to make a positive difference in your foster kid’s life. By providing a nurturing environment, you can help your foster kid heal from their trauma and develop the skills and resilience they need to lead healthy, productive lives.

Strategies for Foster Parents

There’s no one-size-fits-all way to help your foster kid heal from trauma, but here are some strategies we recommend to foster parents.

Ensure your foster kid feels safe.

Doing everything you can to make your foster kid feel safe is perhaps the most important thing you can do to help them heal. Make sure your home is a safe and comfortable place where your foster kid can relax and express themselves. Respect your foster kid’s personal space and avoid yelling, which can trigger retraumatization.

Set a predictable routine.

A predictable routine can help your foster kid feel more secure and in control of their life. Try to establish and maintain a consistent schedule for meals, bedtime, school, and activities. Be flexible and adaptable when necessary, and explain any changes or transitions in advance.

Establish clear boundaries.

Clear boundaries can help your foster kid learn appropriate behavior and respect for authority. Be consistent on what is acceptable and unacceptable, and explain the reasons why. Be firm but fair, and avoid harsh or abusive discipline that can be triggering. Instead of criticizing your foster kid, focus on their strengths and potential.

Foster secure attachment.

Secure attachment is the emotional bond that develops between a child and their caregiver, providing the child with a sense of security, trust, and love. Foster kids who have experienced trauma are unlikely to have developed secure attachment styles, which can hold them back from healthy relationships. To foster secure attachment, you can use techniques such as being responsive to your foster kid’s needs, showing interest in their daily life, spending quality time, and giving positive reinforcement and praise to motivate your foster kid and build their confidence.

Use therapeutic parenting strategies.

Therapeutic parenting is a type of parenting that is tailored to the needs of children who have experienced trauma. It involves understanding how trauma affects your foster kid’s behavior and development, using this knowledge to guide your parenting decisions, and providing your foster kid with the emotional and psychological support they need to heal from their trauma. For example, you can help your foster kid process their trauma by listening to their experiences, validating their feelings, and reframing their beliefs.

Take care to learn your foster kid’s triggers, which are reminders of trauma that can cause your foster kid to experience intense emotional and physical reactions, such as panic attacks or dissociation. Triggers can be anything that resembles or reminds your foster kid of their trauma, including people, places, and situations. When potential triggers cannot be avoided, prepare your foster kid for what may be triggering and have a plan to help them mitigate their trauma reactions. For example, if your foster kid is triggered by medical appointments, you can explain to them what will happen and who will be there. Bring a comfort object, like a stuffed animal, to help them feel safe, and use relaxation techniques, such as breathing exercises, to help them calm down.

When your foster kid has been triggered, take time to help them process their feelings and understand why they reacted the way they did. Work with them to identify what could help in future triggering situations, and praise them for their courage.

Promote emotional regulation.

Emotional regulation is the ability to manage and express emotions in appropriate, healthy ways. Emotional regulation can help your foster kid cope with their trauma reactions, reduce their stress, and improve their mood. To help your foster kid develop emotional regulation, teach them how to identify different emotions, emphasizing that emotions are normal and natural.

Lead by example and show your foster kid healthy ways of managing and expressing different emotions by modeling emotional regulation. For example, you can say, “I’m feeling frustrated because traffic is bad, but I’m taking deep breaths to calm myself down.” You can also encourage your foster kid to express their emotions in healthy ways through activities that promote self-expression, such as music, or activities that let them release their emotions, like sports.

How and when to seek professional help.

If your foster kid is not responding to any of these strategies, they may need therapy or counseling to support their healing journey. Professional help can provide your foster kid with specialized assessment, diagnosis, treatment, and support that can help them overcome their trauma and improve their well-being.

Some signs that your foster kid may need professional help include:

  • Their trauma reactions are severe, frequent, or persistent and interfere with their daily life.
  • They show signs of mental health problems or suicidal thoughts or behaviors.
  • They engage in risky or harmful behaviors, such as substance abuse.

 

There are different types of therapy that can help your foster kid heal from their trauma, depending on their needs. Here are a few of the most common forms of trauma therapy:

  • Trauma-focused cognitive behavioral therapy (TF-CBT): TF-CBT is a type of therapy that helps your foster kid understand and change their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that are related to their trauma. TF-CBT involves teaching your foster kid coping skills and helping them process their trauma by creating a trauma narrative, challenging their negative beliefs, and enhancing their positive self-image.
  • Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR): A recommended treatment for PTSD, EMDR is a type of therapy that involves asking your foster kid to recall their trauma memories, while using eye movements, sounds, or taps to stimulate both sides of their brain. EMDR can help your foster kid reduce the emotional and physical distress associated with their trauma memories by replacing them with more positive and adaptive thoughts and feelings.
  • Attachment, regulation, and competency (ARC): ARC is a therapy framework that focuses on helping your foster kid develop three core components: attachment, which helps your foster kid form healthy relationships; regulation, which helps your foster kid manage and express their emotions; and competency, which helps your foster kid build their self-esteem.
  • Play therapy: Often recommended for children between the ages of 3 and twelve, play therapy is just what it sounds like. Play therapy relies on “play” as your foster kid’s natural medium of expression to help them express their feelings, develop communication skills, and control unwanted behaviors.

 

If you think your foster kid may need professional help, you can ask your Foster Plus partner agency, social worker, or pediatrician for a referral to a qualified mental health professional.

Resources for Further Reading

Childhood trauma and how to help your foster kid to overcome it are hugely complex topics. If you want to read more, here are some books we recommend from certified experts and thought leaders:

 

There are also plenty of online resources to help you understand and address your foster kid’s trauma. These are a few we recommend:

 

Trauma Doesn’t Need to Define Your Foster Kid

Foster kids have faced so much, but having a safe, supportive, loving home can be life-changing. As a foster parent, you can be that life-changing presence. We hope that this blog has given you a deeper understanding of childhood trauma, how it could be impacting your foster kid, and what you can do to help your foster kid heal. And remember, when you work with a Foster Plus partner agency, you’re never alone. If you have any questions about this blog or are in need of support, please reach out to us.

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5 Self-Care Tips for Foster Parents https://fosterplus.org/general/5-self-care-tips-for-foster-parents/ Fri, 19 Jul 2024 18:19:35 +0000 https://fosterplus.org/?p=588 Being a foster parent can be a rewarding but challenging journey. These self-care tips will help you bring your best self to your foster kid.

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Foster parents are entrusted with a huge responsibility: offering stable, caring homes to children, teens, and young adults in need. It’s a responsibility that has the power to transform a kid’s life for the better, but it also requires some personal sacrifices.

At Foster Plus, we understand the added strain foster parents can feel day to day. We also know that too often, foster parents are inclined to brush their own needs to the side in order to place sole focus on the needs of those in their care. However, to bring your best to your foster kids, you need to take care of yourself.

That’s why we’ve put together this list of self-care tips and coping strategies for foster parents. Whether you’re a current or future foster parent, we hope this guide will empower you to care for yourself as you navigate your foster parent journey.

Tip #1: Start Therapy if You’re Not Already Going

Therapy provides foster parents a safe space to process and address the complicated emotions that can surface while fostering a child. Seeing a therapist can be especially beneficial for foster parents with personal histories of trauma. Many foster kids have experienced forms of abuse and neglect and will need extra care and support as they heal and grow. For foster parents with trauma in their own backgrounds, providing this support can be particularly difficult as a foster kid’s trauma and associated behaviors may be triggering.

Remember, you need to put on your own oxygen mask first before you can help others with theirs.

Tip #2: Be Prepared to Give Love Without Receiving It

Unfortunately, traumatic childhood experiences mean that many foster kids are not emotionally equipped to show love or appreciation to their foster parents. This can understandably leave foster parents feeling unfulfilled. Do your best to remember that creating a safe and stable home for a foster kid means being ready to give unconditional love and support. You’re here for them, not the other way around.

Still, we all need to feel loved and appreciated. When your foster kid is unable to fulfill that need, lean on the people in your life who can. Reach out to your family and friends, and tell them you need some encouragement and support. This is also an area where you can lean on your Foster Plus support team.

Tip #3: Evaluate Your Routines

For future foster parents, it should go without saying that bringing a foster kid into your home will also bring lots of changes. The best way to cushion the impact of this disruption to your daily life is by evaluating your family’s routines ahead of time. Consider what about your current routines is most important to you and your family and how a foster kid might change things. What steps can you take now to adjust your life in order to be ready?

As you get used to new routines, be kind to yourself if you experience discomfort or things don’t go as planned. Set aside time to reflect as a family on what’s working and what isn’t, and be open to making additional adjustments to help reduce stress and make it easier to adapt to changes.

Tip #4: Prioritize One-On-One Time With Your Partner

The responsibilities, changes, and added stress brought on by fostering a child can take a toll on your relationship with your partner if you’re not mindful. Be intentional about setting aside time and space to connect as a couple. During this one-on-one time, practice active listening, embrace vulnerability, and do your best to show appreciation and empathy. This will help you support one another’s emotional needs and ensure you’re both bringing your best selves to your foster kid.

Dedicated time together will also help you maintain open and healthy communication, safeguarding your relationship against unwarranted conflicts, anxieties, and misunderstandings — all while better positioning you to work together to resolve warranted challenges in a healthy manner.

Tip #5: Take Advantage of Relief Care

All foster parents need — and deserve! — an opportunity to rest and recharge. That’s why Foster Plus offers relief care. Relief care lets full-time foster parents take time off when they need it by placing foster kids in the temporary care of relief parents for a day or two at a time. Our relief parents are trained and certified, so you can rest assured that your foster kid will be supported and taken care of while you get the time and space you need.

We’re Here for You

When fostering gets hard, never forget that everything you do to provide love, care, safety, and support to your foster kid will have a lasting impact. We are moved every day by the sacrifice, empathy, and selflessness displayed by our foster parents, and we are committed to supporting them in every way possible. If you are a current or future foster parent in need of support, please reach out to us. We’re here to help you, every step of the way.

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Foster Care Home Study: What to Expect and How to Prepare https://fosterplus.org/general/foster-care-home-study-what-to-expect-and-how-to-prepare/ Wed, 29 May 2024 16:28:19 +0000 https://fosterplus.org/?p=580 Curious about the foster care home study process? This post will answer your questions about what to expect and how to prepare.

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If you’ve been researching how to become a foster parent online, you may have come across the term “home study.” A foster care home study is a comprehensive assessment of your home conducted to ensure you can provide a safe and supportive environment for your future foster kid. While this might seem daunting at first, it’s a crucial part of the certification process. Home studies are designed to protect the well-being of foster kids and set you up for success as a foster parent.

In this post, we’ll break down the home study process, explaining everything from interviews and paperwork to the actual home visit. We’ll also provide some practical tips you can implement now to help you prepare for your own home study. Hopefully, by the end of this article, you’ll feel more confident and ready to create a welcoming and nurturing environment for your future foster kid.

What Is a Foster Care Home Study?

At Foster Plus, our partner agencies are committed to the safety of the kids we serve and the sustained success of the incredible foster parents we work with. In order to ensure these positive outcomes for both foster parents and kids, representatives at our partner agencies rely heavily on the information they gather during the home study process.

A foster care home study is a thorough review of your home and lifestyle to determine if you’re able to provide a foster kid with a space that is both physically and emotionally safe. The home study process features two key steps: the safety walkthrough and the personal interview. Combined, these steps give your agency representatives the information they need to ensure the best possible match between you and a foster kid.

First, let’s take a closer look at the safety walkthrough and how you can start preparing your home for your future foster kid.

Foster Care Home Study Checklist At-a-Glance

As we mentioned in our blog post on how to become a foster parent in Oregon, each of our partner agencies differs slightly in their foster parent certification process. This extends to the home study as well. While each agency may have its own checklist, here are a few items you can generally expect to be reviewed during your foster home safety walkthrough. Please note that these examples are not exhaustive, and your agency will provide you with a specific checklist of safety requirements.

General Safety

One of the first things you’ll need to do is guarantee that all potentially dangerous materials are properly stored and secured. This includes medications, chemicals, cleaning supplies, and other toxic materials, as well as weapons. Guns should be kept in locked storage, with ammunition stored and locked separately. Some other things to keep in mind are ensuring alcohol and marijuana are kept inaccessible to your foster kid and having a stocked first-aid kit and flashlights available in case of emergency.

Travel & Transportation Safety

As a foster parent, you must have access to and be willing to use a safe and reliable method of transportation. If that’s your personal motor vehicle, it needs to be maintained in safe operating condition. For children under forty pounds, you must provide a car seat that’s in compliance with state law. For children under 8 years of age or under 4’9” in height, a booster seat must be provided.

Fire Safety & Emergency Preparedness

To keep your foster home safe, you’ll want to make sure you have working smoke and carbon monoxide detectors, fire extinguishers, and easily accessible exits. That includes ensuring all doors can be unlocked from both sides. You’ll also want to create and practice a home evacuation plan every six months, including special provisions for children who need extra help and contact information for people who can help in an emergency.

Home Environment & Sanitation

In general, your home should be kept reasonably clean and sanitary. That includes both indoor and outdoor spaces. Inside, your home should be well-heated and well-ventilated, have adequate hot water and working plumbing, and be generally free of rubbish, mildew, and mold. Outside, your lot should be free of any potentially dangerous objects, swimming pools and other water hazards should be properly maintained and supervised, and your foster kid should have access to a safe outdoor play area, either on-site or nearby.

Bedroom of Child in Care

It’s important that any foster kid entering your care has a space to call their own. Their bedroom should be of adequate size and offer privacy in the form of shades, curtains, or other coverings on all windows. You’ll also need to provide bedding and other furniture, including multiple sets of clean linens and a dresser or similar storage area where your foster kid can keep their personal belongings.

Foster Care Home Study Interviews

At some point during the home study process, you’ll also be required to complete questionnaires and interviews (sometimes multiple) about your personal history. Potential questions or topics can include:

  • Parenting practices
  • Personal and family values
  • Physical and mental health
  • Work
  • Marital/domestic partner relationships
  • Alcohol and drug use
  • Criminal history
  • History of childhood or adult abuse

 

Some prospective foster parents are surprised by how personal and sensitive these interview questions can feel. But there’s a good reason our partner agencies require this level of disclosure: it’s for the safety and well-being of both you and the foster kid who may enter your care.

Gathering this in-depth information about you and your personal history is crucial in helping your agency representative identify areas where you may need extra support and determine the types of kids that might not be the best fit for you. The more information we have, the better we can match foster parents and kids that will work well together and lead to the best possible outcome for both parties.

Contact Foster Plus With Your Home Study Questions

We understand that the foster care home study process can sound overwhelming. But as we stated above, the many safety requirements and the personal interviews are all meant to ensure that the kids we serve are entering safe and supportive environments that will help them thrive. Whether you’re interested in becoming a foster parent or you’ve already started the application process, please don’t hesitate to contact us with any questions you may have about the home study. We’re here to help you feel informed, at ease, and ready to change a child’s life by opening up your home.

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How to Become a Foster Parent in Oregon: A Step-By-Step Guide https://fosterplus.org/general/how-to-become-a-foster-parent-in-oregon-a-step-by-step-guide/ Thu, 02 May 2024 19:34:34 +0000 https://fosterplus.org/?p=571 Interested in becoming a foster parent in Oregon but not sure where to start? Read our guide to learn each step of the process, from applications and training to the support you receive after being paired with a foster kid.

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Choosing to become a foster parent is a huge decision. But it’s one that could change a child’s life. If you’ve ever considered opening your heart and home to a foster child, you may wonder about the steps involved in becoming a foster parent. This guide is designed to help you navigate the journey, from understanding the initial requirements to completing the certification process and being paired with a foster kid.

In this blog post, we’ll walk you through every step to becoming a certified foster parent in Oregon with Foster Plus. You’ll learn about the qualifications required, what training and certification look like, and the responsibilities and ongoing support that come with foster care. While each of our partner agencies differs slightly in their process, our goal is to give you a general overview of what you can expect along the way. Whether you’re ready to get started or just seeking more information, we hope this guide will help you feel a little more confident taking that next step toward becoming a foster parent.

Researching How to Become a Foster Parent

It’s hard to make a decision, especially one this big, without the right information. Taking the time to do your own research and learn what’s involved in becoming a foster parent is an important first step.

If you’re new to foster care, we think one of the best places to start is hearing the stories of experienced foster parents who have gone before you. We’d encourage you to check out our Faces of Foster Care series, which features video testimonials from some amazing parents who share how they got started in foster care, what they’ve learned from their experience, and advice for people like you who might be considering fostering. These videos are a great resource for getting a better sense of what life will be like as a foster parent.

If you’re looking for more technical information on becoming a foster parent, our FAQs page has some helpful answers to questions we hear from a lot of prospective foster parents. This page also includes some recommended books and online resources that can help you ​​prepare for the commitment of fostering kids who need extra support. And throughout your research if you have any specific questions you want answered, you can always reach out to the Foster Plus team via email at info@fosterplus.org. We’re always happy to help you wherever you’re at in your journey with foster care.

Getting Started

Okay, you’ve done a lot of reading, listening, and information gathering, and you think fostering might be right for you. What should you do next? First, visit our “Get Started” page and submit your information, making sure to check the box indicating that you’re interested in becoming a foster parent. From there, a team member from one of our partner agencies in your area will reach out to connect with you.

Before making any commitments or filling out any paperwork, you’ll be encouraged (or required in some cases, depending on the agency) to attend an info session. In these info sessions, whether in-person or virtual, you’ll learn about your local agency, the kids they serve, their requirements for becoming a foster parent, and what next steps look like.

After the info session comes the application process. Don’t worry; this isn’t like filing your taxes — you won’t need to come prepared with a bunch of records or pre-existing paperwork. You’ll just fill out a simple online application to help us learn more about you. Once your application is approved, it’s on to the training and certification stage.

Orientation, Training & Certification

There’s a lot that goes on during this important middle stage. Here’s a quick rundown — and again, this is a rough overview, so the actual details and order of each step will differ between agencies:

  • Background check & references
  • Agency orientation
  • Home study & interview
  • Foster parent training
  • Certification

 

Background Check & References

A standard background check is required for all prospective foster parents. But that may have you wondering if there’s something in your past or present that might disqualify you from becoming a foster parent. Before you count yourself out, check out this blog we wrote debunking some myths around who can or cannot become a foster parent. We don’t want to miss out on connecting with and certifying awesome future foster parents due to a misunderstanding about qualifications!

In addition to a background check, you’re also required to submit four references, only one of whom can be a relative. Be sure to choose references who have known you for a while. If applying with a spouse or partner, references should know both applicants well.

Agency Orientation

While this step may come earlier or later in the process, depending on the agency, at some point you will meet your entire support team. This can include counselors and therapists, case managers, and more. Meeting in person gives your agency a chance to get to know you better. This is also a great time for you to get to know your support team and ask any questions that may have come up for you since attending the info session and submitting your application.

Home Study & Interview

When we place kids with foster families, we want to ensure that they’re entering a safe and supportive environment and that they have a space to call their own. That’s where home studies come in.

The goal of a home study is to determine whether your home is safe and ready for a foster kid. A representative from your local partner agency will conduct a walkthrough of your home to check that you’re in compliance with necessary safety standards. Securely storing medications, maintaining pools and other water hazards, and having working smoke detectors are just some of the safety considerations to keep in mind. You’ll likely be given a checklist in advance so you can prepare your home to meet all the necessary requirements.

Many agencies also conduct interviews with prospective foster parents and ask them to complete an in-depth autobiographical statement or questionnaire during the home study stage. These can be lengthy and include questions about your childhood and present. While the information you’re asked to share may seem sensitive, the purpose is to help us identify the best possible match between you and your foster kid.

Foster Parent Training

You can expect to complete a minimum of 28 hours of specialized training prior to being certified as a foster parent with one of our partner agencies. There is typically a combination of in-person classroom training and self-paced online training modules. Some topics that may be covered in training include:

  • Trauma-informed care
  • Collaborative Problem Solving®
  • Behavior and crisis management
  • Mandatory reporting of child abuse
  • Program policies and expectations
  • Gender- and culturally-specific services
  • Medication administration
  • Discipline and restraint policies
  • Suicide prevention

 

All of our Foster Plus partner agencies take training very seriously. And it’s not just to give you a bunch of hoops to jump through. We want you to feel confident and well-equipped as you prepare to welcome a foster kid into your home and life.

Certification

After providing references, doing the home study, going through training, and completing any other necessary steps, you’ve finally made it to certification! Your agency may review any final policies and procedures before you sign a contract to become a foster parent. From there, you’ll be paired with a foster kid based on all the information and preferences you communicated during orientation and training.

Foster Parenting

From the moment you welcome a foster kid into your home, you’re never alone in your foster care journey. One of the benefits of fostering with a Foster Plus partner agency is that you are supported every step of the way by a team dedicated to providing custom care for your foster kid and you.

Here’s what that “circle of support” looks like:

  • 24/7 access to support staff such as case managers and counselors
  • Frequent and regular visits and communication with a team dedicated to providing custom care and wraparound support
  • Breaks when you need them, with 48 hours off per month thanks to relief parents
  • Extra financial support starting at $1,400 per month to help cover the costs of caring for your foster kid
  • Ongoing specialized training to prepare you to care for kids with higher needs

 

Foster parenting can be challenging at times, especially when you’re working with kids who have experienced trauma and disruption in their lives. But as families like the Mendozas below will tell you, the effort is absolutely worth it when you see your foster kid transform and find success. And the effort is made easier by the incredible support you’ll receive from your agency team.

Learn More About Becoming a Foster Parent

Whether you’re ready to take the leap or you just want more information, we’d love to talk with you no matter where you’re at. Reach out to us today so we can help guide and encourage you as you explore to possibility of becoming a foster parent and changing a child’s life.

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Get to Know Our Foster Care Agencies in Oregon https://fosterplus.org/general/get-to-know-our-foster-care-agencies-in-oregon/ Wed, 08 Nov 2023 23:45:08 +0000 https://fosterplus.org/?p=556 Learn how our partner agencies are working to connect kids in need with the support and stability of committed, caring foster families.

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Foster Plus is an effort of nonprofit social service agencies collaborating to connect kids in need with the support and stability of committed, caring foster families. We partner to raise awareness for the growing need for foster care in Oregon and provide foster families with the training and resources they need to make a lasting difference in a child’s life.

In this post, we want to introduce you to each of our amazing partner agencies. They’re located throughout Oregon, serving our state’s diverse regions and populations. Read on to learn more about the unique programs offered by our partner agencies and the communities they serve.

Boys & Girls Aid

Boys & Girls Aid was initially founded in 1885 to respond to the crisis of children being abandoned on the streets of Portland with nowhere to go. Today, more than 135 years later, they are tackling a new crisis: the growing needs and number of children in Oregon’s foster care system.

Boys & Girls Aid’s mission is to end the cycle of foster care and ensure every child in foster care grows up in a family who knows their history and is invested in their future. They accomplish this mission by offering innovative and supportive foster care programs, as well as programs for youth like their Safe Place shelter, a 24/7 drop-in program where youth can access essential services while longer-term housing is found.

To learn more about Boys & Girls Aid, visit: boysandgirlsaid.org

Family Solutions

Family Solutions represents the combination of two formerly independent agencies: Southern Oregon Child Study & Treatment Center (SOCSTC), founded in 1972, and Family Friends, founded in 1984. Today, they offer various mental health services for children and families, including community treatment, psychiatric day treatment, and school-based counseling.

A person-centered philosophy is at the core of Family Solutions’ work. This means the people they serve take an active role in their treatment. They recognize the individuality of each person served and strive to customize services and supports to best meet their unique needs, traits, culture, and preferences.

To learn more about Family Solutions, visit: familysolutionsoregon.org

GOBHI

Greater Oregon Behavioral Health, Inc. (GOBHI) is a nonprofit corporation serving rural Oregonians with a behavioral health and social services network that empowers individuals and communities to achieve better health. Founded in 1994, they are tasked with administering the behavioral health Medicaid benefit, non-emergent medical transportation and community engagement in 12 rural and frontier counties in Oregon.

Their foster care program sprang from seeing the need for safe places for foster youth to land throughout the state. Through advocacy, intervention, and training certified foster parents, GOBHI seeks to interrupt generational trauma, build healthy communities, and develop stable, connected children and families.

To learn more about GOBHI, visit: gobhi.org

Kairos

Since 1977, Kairos has collaborated with young people, families, and communities across Oregon to provide intensive mental health services and instill hope. Their Treatment Foster Care (TFC) program provides intensive treatment services for children and youth with serious emotional and/or behavioral challenges.

Kairos recruits, selects, and trains treatment foster parents (TFPs) from the local community. These TFPs join with teams of Kairos professionals, family members, and additional community supports to create and implement an individualized service plan for youth placed in their homes. This level of care serves youth ages 4 to 18 years old who are facing issues like abuse, neglect, extreme poverty or houselessness, interaction with the juvenile justice system, and living with learning disabilities or cognitive impairments.

To learn more about Kairos, visit: kairosnw.org

Clarvida

Clarvida Oregon is a private nonprofit child-caring agency dedicated to transforming the lives of children, youth, and families across the state. For more than 20 years, Clarvida has provided trauma-informed behavioral health and mental health services, foster care, and community-based supports designed to help individuals heal and thrive. Through specialized programs, Clarvida partners with families to create safe, stable, and nurturing environments. Rooted in the belief that caring for others can change more than lives—it can change communities—Clarvida empowers both caregivers and the youth they serve to reach their fullest potential.

Clarvida Oregon’s Therapeutic Foster Care (TFC) program provides youth who need a higher level of care with safe, stable, and nurturing homes led by skilled foster parents. Many of the youth served have experienced significant trauma, emotional and behavioral challenges, or disruptions in placement. Clarvida’s trauma-informed approach focuses on helping youth build resilience, regulate emotions, and develop meaningful connections within their families and communities. Foster parents receive specialized training, 24/7 support, and ongoing guidance to ensure every placement is equipped for success. The TFC program currently serves youth and families across Oregon’s Metro, Western, and Southern regions, with ongoing expansion efforts to meet the growing need for therapeutic foster homes statewide.

To learn more about Clarvida Oregon Programs, visit: clarvida.com/oregon.

The Next Door

With more than four decades of experience, The Next Door changes lives and builds communities in the Columbia Gorge through mental health counseling, equity and outreach training, and foster care programs. They also support Spanish-speaking communities in the region with economic development services, health promotion services, and other family services.

The Next Door’s foster care programs utilize Therapeutic Foster Care, a higher level of foster care serving children and teens (ages 6-18) who have emotional, behavioral, and/or medical needs. Most of their youth have been abused or neglected and function developmentally younger than their biological age. Through trauma-informed care, these youth can heal, grow, and develop with the support from a caring foster parent.

To learn more about The Next Door, visit: nextdoorinc.org

Oregon Community Programs

Oregon Community Programs is a private nonprofit agency that has provided research-based treatment and prevention services and programs to children, youth, and families since 1983. They provide a range of evidence-based behavioral health and rehabilitation interventions, including Treatment Foster Care Oregon (TFCO) and Keeping Foster and Kinship Families Supported (KEEP).

Oregon Community Programs takes extra time and care to make sure the decision to foster is right for everyone involved. Their thorough certification process includes Treatment Foster Care training/orientation, as well as weekly foster parent support meetings. They welcome foster parent applicants of every race and ethnicity, culture, religious affiliation, sexual orientation, and age who meet their certification criteria.

To learn more about Oregon Community Programs, visit: oregoncommunityprograms.org

Youth Progress

Youth Progress is a diverse and inclusive community of staff and foster parents who provide young people with safe and stable housing and opportunities to grow, learn, and succeed. They offer culturally responsive, trauma-informed, engagement-based, and youth-centered programs and services.

Families and More Connect (FAMConnect) is the foundation of their foster care programs, focusing on recruitment, certification, training, and support for their community of Therapeutic Foster Parents. This training ensures that foster parents are never alone in their journey and it supports the psychosocial and emotional development and success of their young people.

To learn more about Youth Progress, visit: youthprogress.org

Youth Unlimited

With deep ties and experience in serving Oregon’s most marginalized communities, Youth Unlimited’s mission is to provide unwavering support and compassion to every youth in need, ensuring their safety, stability, and well-being. They do this by placing youth in loving and accountable foster homes with a strong emphasis on celebrating and providing culturally supportive care and services.

Youth Unlimited works to place youth in their certified Behavioral Rehabilitation Services (BRS) treatment foster care homes and provide them with case management and 24/7 crisis support services. They also use a Collaborative Problem Solving approach to support youth with challenging behavior and the foster parents who care for them. This helps adults shift to a more compassionate mindset and work with the youth to build the skills they need to thrive.

To learn more about Youth Unlimited, visit: yuioregon.net

Learn More About Becoming a Foster Parent in Oregon

We are so grateful for each of our partner agencies and the unique ways they serve foster youth and families throughout Oregon. If you’re interested in learning more about becoming a foster parent in Oregon but you’re not sure about next steps, reach out to us! We’d love to talk with you and help get you connected with a local agency in your area.

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